My natural topic of interest forever has been relationships. I wonder how people come together and get bonded.
What gets them connected. Why do they hang around together? Why do they fight and then don’t even want to see face? etc
Everytime I look into my past the only thing that comes back to me is every person in my life who has left me happy or sad has made me a better person. Has helped me be stronger and come closer to myself. I feel thankful to each and every person who has walked some bit of road with me – to make me who i am today!
How??
When someone loves us – its easy – they pamper us soon much that we start looking at our goods and start being happy with it.
Problems happen when there are conflicts and that is when our mind and heart does not come together. I believe that every person I have had a conflict with – where we agree to disagree with each other – if i look into the situation without a bias – i may have a point of view to understand and learn from.
Most of the times we forgot – life is not abt right/wrong and nor are relationships.
Life is about learning, living and enjoying and so are relationships. Relationships are about just being oneself and letting the other person be the same.
We often say – when i die, what is it that i will take with me? The answer to which has been nothing… but i want you to consider – the only thing we take with us is enriched soul. A soul that was happy, sometimes sad, sometimes angry, sometimes empathetic… but each emotion comes to us because of someone.
And so i say –
Every relationship completes us in some form… every means every…